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(when you love and care about someone/something you hurt to see him down and try to help him up. Closing your eyes to the problem is not helping at all, it only makes things worse...)
Been having some productive sessions with your therapist I see.

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I don't like calling this team cr@p. It's the number 1 reason, why I get pissed and nag a lot of my good friends on PM.
There's a difference between saying...
'This team is cr@p' and 'This team is playing like cr@p'. That's I think what R7 is saying.
Maybe a lot of people mean option B, but it comes out as option A. But by then, the arguments and the counter-arguments have gone beyond the point of recall.
Carlo was a clown without a future last season. Then he won the CL, and the voices quietened a bit. Now they're back again. Gila was a retard who was pegging us back. Now we're all rather non-commital about it. Last season Seedorf was a fat assed sloth, who we were better of coating in sugar candy and mailing it to Pana's address in Athens. Suddenly towards the end, everyone was like 'Clarence is good, he's still got it!'.
You know what, maybe it's just passion speaking, and it comes out in bursts, I'm not casting doubts about anybody's loyalties, but when people come out and make a statement something along the lines of...
"This team is sh!t, a disgrace. Fire X,Y,Z and all the others before them"
and then a couple of months later, "What a Milan, I love this club..ad infinitum"
It's not really our fault we take this at face value now is it.
I don't need to name names, last season there was an entire congregation of people who said, we were going nowhere or even worse. It would seem they were proved wrong. Now it's started again this season, and what really gets me about this is, what else can Milan do to win a little faith. Last season, a rather pissed off Paolo made the statement asking fans should come out and support them considering what all Milan have done for them.
Maybe R7, myself, Nova, mishie,10ster (since we seem to be in the minority who are living in the 'dream world') are different people. Maybe we're not just as competitive. But in the long run, a 'bad season' (I don't agree we've had a bad season, to be honest, last season was a pretty good one!, and this season has just started) is not really the end of the world now is it. I don't agree with the philosophy of attacking the team when it is playing badly. Maybe I just believe in constructive criticism.
In 2000 for instance we placed sixth.In 2001 and 2002 fourth. All three times we were below Inter. In 2003,then bingo we won it. And by a lead of 11 points too. So when R7 says, don't freak out, because the board is not going to let things slide too much and I agree with him, it's based on past experience. 12 years for me and a million for him.

So when at that point we're ridiculed and accused of living in a 'dream world' is it really our fault, that we scratch our head in the best of times, and make Tennie bring out her fish tank at the worst of times?
I love the forum, I've met so many people here and exposed myself unconsciously to cultures I might never have staying in the southern tip of India, please don't think I don't appreciate you as people. Maybe I've even grown as a person thanks to all of you. Personally I have tried to give you all the same respect and steer clear of angering anyone here. If I have, I'm sorry it was unintentional.
As I understand, people come up with an outburst out of passion, and then say it's because they love the team. But often in the outburst, they end up saying things you really wouldn't expect a supporter to say. It's just that it wouldn't be too difficult, to maybe think through that post before hitting the 'Add Reply' button right? I mean the previous match before the Lazio demolition?? And then after that?
Too many posts made in the heat of the moment, and then they are taken up at face value resulting in an argument. I mean it would be better like 10ster says to write 'This team is inconsistent and we may have to reassess a few things(to be followed by what those things are)', which is so obviously the truth as opposed to ' This team is a sh!tty disgrace, and we should fire Galliani', which pisses me off every bloody time.
Or if you can't help it, at least prefix an Angry Rant label or something.
I like this management. They make bad decisions sometimes, but if for every bad decision you fired people, things would get hilarious. Generally, I'd say we have the best management among all the clubs in the world. They've stayed true to the Milan philosophy and never once sold out on the club. I don't think it's fair to criticize for not buying players, when we have no idea about the finances of the club and where the money's been spent. How many of us knew when we were crying bloody murder over transfers, that OUR club spent over 200 mill dollars, trying to make the San Siro meet new regulations? Or did it never strike you as odd, that Don Silvio would have to open his wallet to buy Ronaldo when Ronaldo's fee was a measly 10 mill?? That inspite of winning the CL, and finishing 4th in the league, selling Sheva for a billion pounds, all we got was a profit of 1 million euros?? Ronaldo would eat through that in a month. If the club decides it needs to keep finances healthy, then it's good enough for me. I've seen where Leeds United are, thank you very much. I'd rather take a couple of 'bad seasons' (4th place and CL, how tragic for us!!), than see us being talked of as the 'once-great' Milan.
We can weep for where we are now, and curse Galliani, since we have that luxury. It's not really like we OWE anything to the club right. I mean we can say bring Drogba and R10 altogether, and if they flop- 'Hey it's not my 100 million euros, too bad , now let's try another combination of super stars!'; that's not really an option for Braida and Galliani. So to criticize, without even knowing what their responsibilities entail is a bit presumptous.
Col. Jessop has a dialogue that goes 'I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very freedom I provide, then questions the manner in which I provide it! I'd rather you just said thank you and went on your way'.
If you'd think about it just a little, Carletto, Galliani, Don Silvio, Paolo, Clarence or anyone of those 'hate-figures' could just tweak those lines a little bit, and throw it right back at our face. And you know what, I wouldn't have a reply. Would you? You say their responsibility is to their fans. I'd say they've never ever forgotten that. But this responsibility, loyalty thing works both ways. Maybe it would be good for all of us to remember that once in a while.
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